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Alyssa looking at the world... talking about stuff. 20. College student abroad in London which you can read about here! This blog is pretty great because it oscillates between fangirling and pretentious intellectualism, and if you don't think that's great, that's okay too, but you should probably not follow because then you'd just be annoyed and that would be silly.
On a scale from the Doctor's real name to Israel has nukes, how secret is your secret?

Motto: Whatever works/ pragmatism

I remember going to freshman orientation at my uni and walking up to the disability support services table at the student fair and asking about accommodations for students with ADHD and the guy explained all the possibilities to me but ended by saying he thought I’d be alright without since I kept my focus the whole time he talked to me and like

I don’t often want to hit people

but isn’t he supposed to be an expert on this stuff?

yes because following a two minute conversation when you’re scared out of your mind because of new surroundings is exactly like having to bang out three essays in two hours during exams

1 month ago on April 18th | J | 1 note
Tagged as: #adhd 

Even more writing tips for people with ADHD (or anyone looking for help)

I’m a third year undergrad working on a degree in International Relations and music. This means essays. A lot of essays. I also have ADHD and dyslexia, so it is sometimes a really interesting struggle. Here are some ways that I cope with the stress. Writing these out combines my two favorite things- self analysis and telling other people what to do. Yay! My average per-semester GPA is like 3.8 or something, so I’m pretty sure these work. More tips here

1 month ago on April 18th | J | 41 notes

 #THIS WILL FOREVER BE THE IMAGE FOR ME OF WHO STILES REALLY IS#HE IS CALCULATING AND COLD #HE WEARS HIS ADD LIKE ARMOUR #HE FLAILS TO HIDE HIS SIZE #HIS STRENGTH #HE IS CUNNING AND MANIPULATIVE #SMART AND INSIGHTFUL #HE HAS A CONSTANT NEED TO KNOW TO UNDERSTAND TO HAVE MASTERY OF THINGS HE DOENS’T GRASP RIGHT OFF THE BAT #YOU HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO HURT SOMETHING HE CARES ABOUT #HE HAS THE ABILITY THE KNOWLEDGE THE WILL TO TAKE YOU THE FUCK DOWN WIHTOUT A SECONDS THOUGHT #HE IS NOT THE BOY WHO RUNS WITH WOLVES#HE IS THE MAN THE WOLVES WILLFULLY FOLLOW

Sometimes I cry because Stiles is the first time a character perceived as having ADD has been more than a punchline or a special fucking snowflake indigo child. We can be focused. We can be geniuses. We can be idiot assholes. We can be whatever. 

 #THIS WILL FOREVER BE THE IMAGE FOR ME OF WHO STILES REALLY IS#HE IS CALCULATING AND COLD #HE WEARS HIS ADD LIKE ARMOUR #HE FLAILS TO HIDE HIS SIZE #HIS STRENGTH #HE IS CUNNING AND MANIPULATIVE #SMART AND INSIGHTFUL #HE HAS A CONSTANT NEED TO KNOW TO UNDERSTAND TO HAVE MASTERY OF THINGS HE DOENS’T GRASP RIGHT OFF THE BAT #YOU HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO HURT SOMETHING HE CARES ABOUT #HE HAS THE ABILITY THE KNOWLEDGE THE WILL TO TAKE YOU THE FUCK DOWN WIHTOUT A SECONDS THOUGHT #HE IS NOT THE BOY WHO RUNS WITH WOLVES#HE IS THE MAN THE WOLVES WILLFULLY FOLLOW

Sometimes I cry because Stiles is the first time a character perceived as having ADD has been more than a punchline or a special fucking snowflake indigo child. We can be focused. We can be geniuses. We can be idiot assholes. We can be whatever. 

2 months ago on February 28th | J | 28 notes
the cycle of class participation for people with ADHD and social anxiety

the cycle of class participation for people with ADHD and social anxiety

3 months ago on February 18th | J | 58 notes

ceci-nest-pas-une:

violasarecool:

ask-damaged-jim:

sherlockspeare:

Sherlock mirroring John.

Oh, look, another symptom of Asperger’s Syndrome, not sociopathy.

Okay, it’s unpopular opinion time. Ignore me if you wish.

Alright. Let me start this little rant by saying that I’m absolutely sick of people claiming Sherlock Holmes to be a ‘sociopath’. He isn’t. Allow me to also say that I know how similar Asperger’s and sociopathy can seem, in certain cases, and that’s because I was misdiagnosed as a sociopath awhile back. I have Asperger’s Syndrome. As does Sherlock.

Common symptoms of high-functioning sociopathy:

  • Superficial charm
  • Manipulative and conning
  • Grandiose sense of self
  • Pathological lying
  • Lack of remorse, shame, or guilt
  • Incapability to love
  • Need for stimulation
  • Lack of empathy/inability to relate
  • Irresponsibility
  • Lack of realistic life plan
  • Extreme intelligence

Common symptoms of high-functioning Asperger’s Syndrome:

  • Issues picking in on social cues (ex: When someone is upset with them, or being sarcastic, it’s very hard for them to tell)
  • Appear to lack empathy/inability to relate
  • His or her speech may be flat
  • Formal style of speaking
  • May avoid eye contact (me) or stare at others (Sherlock)
  • Talk a lot, usually on favorite subject; inability to tell when boring the listener
  • Internal thoughts are often verbalized (ex: Seeming blunt or rude by telling someone they’re stupid, merely because they have no filter)
  • Extremely heightened senses (GEE I WONDER WHY SHERLOCK CAN SMELL AND HEAR AND TASTE AND SEE EVERYTHING)
  • Highly intelligent/logical way of thinking
  • Tendency to mimic others, especially people they like (JAWN)
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Typically only keep few, very close friends
  • Can go days without speaking, and eating very little, especially when drained

SO NOW THAT THAT’S COVERED. Let’s move on, shall we?

Sherlock Holmes grew up with the Holmes family, a respectable family. Behavior is learned, especially for those with Asperger’s. Why is Sherlock so proper? Why is he so cunning? Why does he dress the way he does? Well, that may just have something to do with the people he grew up with.

Is he manipulating? Of course. Yet, isn’t Mycroft? Hm. I wonder where he learned that trait. Not only that, but he’s doing it for basic information, not just for pure entertainment as a sociopath would. Let’s be serious. He doesn’t fool around. Oh, did I mention that’s another symptom of Asperger’s? Conversation and action for purpose, not for pleasure; very precise.

Let’s also toy around with a very common controversial topic within the Sherlock fandom: Sherlock does feel. He does love. He does care. The whole reason he jumped was because he cared. He cares for John, he cares for Mrs. Hudson, and he cares for Lestrade. John is his best friend, Mrs. Hudson is his mother figure, and Lestrade is his friend and his work. Without those, he would have been nothing. It would have destroyed him. Therefore, he destroyed himself in sacrifice (which we all know was faked, blah, blah, but the sentiment is still there, blah, blah).

While Sherlock may not have the physically clumsy symptoms of those with Asperger’s (I don’t either), that’s typical for someone of his age, as it’s something you usually grow out of as you get older. Asperger’s is a lifelong disorder. It never goes away, and there’s no medication that targets each symptom. You treat what you can, and live with what you can’t.

His need for stimulation, I think, has to do with his basic frustration and his work, as a matter of fact. Sherlock does drugs. Okay? That’s common knowledge within this fandom. He likes his drugs. Why does he do them? Well, to quote him, ‘they help him think’.

In all reality, it’s somewhat correct. The drugs Sherlock takes heighten his senses to an even more extreme degree, making him the observant smartass that he is. Not only that, but they speed up his thought process, and mixing that all in with his intelligence level, makes for one smart cookie.

I also believe that he’s just…frustrated. It’s hard. It really is. He knows he’s not like everyone else, which is why he’s clung onto the sociopath nonsense. He truly believes that he is a sociopath, probably because he’s done research on it and saw a partial match. It was something, finally something, he could relate to. Because I did the same goddamn thing. He knows it doesn’t fit perfectly. Moriarty knows it doesn’t fit perfectly. ‘We both know that’s not quite true’. He knows. He just has nothing else to hold onto.

Rant over. Knowledge is power. Blah, blah, blah.

The end.

SHERLAWKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

this gives me all the feels

and YES

YES

I can’t believe how many people ACTUALLY think that he’s a sociopath

or claim to be one because of it

nope nope nope

thank you

Question: Do you think it is intentional that Sherlock announced he was a high-functioning sociopath in the first episode? If the two conditions are commonly misdiagnosed for each other, maybe that was an intentional misdirection.

Can I just throw ADD into the mix as a possibility? Sociopathy, Asperger’s, and ADD are misdiagnosed for each other, with ADD being the most commonly diagnosed because that’s what people would rather hear (which is ridiculous btw. As if your diagnosis impacts your condition). But… Hyperfocus to the point of eclipsing bodily functions, tendency towards addiction, difficulty with social interaction, no desire to eat, inability to understand the direct connection between work and need for income (Sherlock rushing off to start the immediately gratifying work of solving the case without collecting the check, which is delayed gratification), difficulty sleeping, complaining of loudness when nobody’s talking (to a person with ADD, everything is loud. Your bright pink shirt is loud. The stupid look on Anderson’s face is loud. The unfinished puzzle in the corner is loud.)

It’s just my opinion, but I’m going to take a leaf out of John Green’s book and say that for me, Sherlock has ADD because that’s how I see him and that’s how I need him to be. And the nice thing about that is you’re allowed to think whatever you want, too!

5 months ago on December 13th | J | 30,352 notes
8bitfuture:

Bluetooth stickers locate lost items.
‘StinkNFind’ stickers are low energy Bluetooth devices which can stay on for up to a year, allowing users to track them via a smartphone app.
The technology doesn’t allow items to be placed on a map like a GPS, instead offering an approximate distance from the phone. To find an item, users need to walk in a random direction until they see the item getting closer.
An alternative feature allows users to set an alarm to go off when the sticker moves a certain distance away from the smartphone. That could alert parents if a child ran away from a playground, for example, or to remind you you’ve forgotten your keys when leaving for work.
One smartphone can be paired with up to 20 stickers, which are about the size of a US quarter.

8bitfuture:

Bluetooth stickers locate lost items.

‘StinkNFind’ stickers are low energy Bluetooth devices which can stay on for up to a year, allowing users to track them via a smartphone app.

The technology doesn’t allow items to be placed on a map like a GPS, instead offering an approximate distance from the phone. To find an item, users need to walk in a random direction until they see the item getting closer.

An alternative feature allows users to set an alarm to go off when the sticker moves a certain distance away from the smartphone. That could alert parents if a child ran away from a playground, for example, or to remind you you’ve forgotten your keys when leaving for work.

One smartphone can be paired with up to 20 stickers, which are about the size of a US quarter.

5 months ago on December 7th | J | 904 notes

Sometimes I worry that my ADHD is just me being a big baby and that there’s nothing wrong with me except that I’m lazy.

But then I remember that I’m not allowed to drive a car while unmedicated so

5 months ago on November 28th | J | 16 notes

Writing for people with ADHD (or anyone else)

in an attempt to convince myself I am capable of writing this impending paper and to quell the panic attack I feel brewing somewhere around my sternum, I’m writing a list of tips and tricks for writing that I’ve devised or picked up over the years. Feel free to add your own!

6 months ago on November 19th | J | 98 notes

Score one for Headphones117

robynvespertili:

I’m an INTJ. For explanations on this, go to this website: http://typelogic.com/intj.html

Personalities like this are determined by the Meyers-Briggs test. You can take it anywhere online. Just Google it. 

Anyway, this conversation happened:
Headphones117 (aka Roommate): Do you know of any INTJ’s who like people?

Me: Let me put it this way. The most famous literary INTJ is Hannibal Lector.

Headphones117:…..

Me:…….

Headphones117: Well…he liked people.

Me:  

Hey now, we have STEPHEN HAWKING

8 months ago on September 19th | J | 18 notes
Tagged as: #INTJ #ADHD 
conitorratio:

ADD

conitorratio:

ADD

8 months ago on September 10th | J | 4 notes